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IT HURTS!
Whilst it might hurt the first time and for a few seconds on each subsequent try at the beginning, this is often because your partner may be rushing entry and will not have your primed you properly. Use lots of lube (essential!) and try with a single finger, progress to small insertables (butt-plugs) before going the whole hog. A little bit of clitoral stimulation will help relax you, too. The more tense your body is, the more chance that the entry will hurt.
IT WILL CAUSE DAMAGE
If your vagina can stand up to child birth and go back to normal, the anus has little to worry about when talking about the girth of a penis. As long as you use plenty of lubricant, you’ll come out of the experience unscathed and unhurt. Just take things slowly to begin with.
ANAL SEX IS DIRTY
Actually, believe it or…
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Annab. I love your choice. Or gift.
Recently in a submissive’s forum on Fetlife, the question was posed, “is your submission a gift?”. Some said to stop putting “fancy labels” on it, that it’s simply a “choice”, others said it was a gift. i’m sure there are as many answers as there are people. But for me it feels like coming home. A comfortable, safe place to fall that feels like the real me. The only “choice” i’ve made throughout the years was to do what was “appropriate” or “expected” of me. And it’s no surprise to anyone that living a life that is not the real you only leads to disappointment and resentment. Being with SB has always felt like home, even when the D/s was not named or overt. i’ve always looked to Him to be in charge, to care for me, to do what i can to please Him. i’m not sure i ever…
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Again good advice for us too annab.
I feel the same way for my annab.
My babygirl spot on, this is us.
Great insight on how to have a successful relationship.
How you sleep together and what it means.
Seems accurate.
But you must be willing to receive and accept it.