The problem with falling in love the first time as an adult is that unless you are free to pursue it, or brave enough to give up your existing life to, is that when you meet other people, there is simply the complete lack of inspirational fire. It is a vastly different experience than falling in love when you are nothing more than a child without the experience of life behind you. Yes, you can be attracted to someone, you can grow to love them out of the deep care you feel towards them. There can be passionate moments between you that dissipate as soon as the physical need is over.
That moment when a passionate encounter ends, is when you truly recognize what you have lost by not chasing what you really wanted. The overwhelming lust and need you feel for someone you love, is the very spice that…
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